Happy Father’s Day Weekend!

This weekend and every day, we think of our fathers, Richard and Wil, and brother-in-law, Jerry, who aren’t with us anymore. We miss them so much, but they will always live in our hearts. And we celebrate the backpacker in the photo who loves his daughter and son and wife more than anything. He’s endured some bumps in the road but with us by his side for support, he feels like he’s won the lottery. Besides spending time with his family, he’d rather be hiking on a mountain, relaxing by a lake, or riding a motorcycle. His heart is kind and he tries to see the good in everyone. Even after 37 years, I still get lost in his blue eyes and can’t believe how lucky I am to share my life with him. ❤️

By the way, DNA doesn’t make a good father. Actions speak louder than words. A biological father who neglects his children isn’t a good dad. A great father is a man who is emotionally available and actively involved in his child’s life.

“The greatest gift a father could give to his children is his time.”

Enjoy your weekend and celebrations, and Thanks for stopping by! ❤️

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© Lauren Scott, BaydreamerWrites.com

Lauren Scott is a 2025 Pushcart Prize Nominee who enjoys small-town living in the Bay Area with her husband, Matt, of thirty-seven years. Their daughter and son live out of state and with frequent visits and technology, this family of four remains close. Lauren has published four collections of poetry: New Day, New Dreams (2013)Finding a Balance (2015), Ever So Gently (2023), and King Copper (2025). In 2021, she released her memoir, More than Coffee. Her first children’s book, Cora’s Quest, was published in 2024. Lauren has been a guest on several podcasts, and her writing is featured at Spillwords Press and Literary Revelations. At Spillwords Press, she was awarded Publication of the Year (Poetic 2026), Author of the Month (May 2023) and Publication of the Month (June 2025, October 2024). Lauren is a member of the Redwood Writers Chapter of the California Writers Club, and her poem “Wings” was named Honorable Mention in their 2026 Smalls Too Poetry Contest. Lauren’s work is published in six anthologies. Her muse discovers inspiration from family, spending time outdoors, and marveling at the mysteries of life. 

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77 thoughts on “Happy Father’s Day Weekend!

  1. What a heartfelt tribute to your dad, FIL AND YOUR Hubby and dad to your children, Lauren! That’s such a gift! I hope he’s doing well now and enjoys being spoiled! No doubt a Hine is in order!

    Sending love ❤️ ❣️❤️❣️❤️

  2. Willie Torres Jr.'s avatar Willie Torres Jr.

    This is such a beautiful tribute. I especially loved your reminder that being a father is about far more than DNA, it’s about love, presence, sacrifice, and showing up day after day. The love and admiration you have for your husband shines through every word, and after 37 years, still getting lost in his blue eyes is a testimony to a marriage that has been blessed.

    1. Aww, thanks so much for your beautiful and thoughtful words, Willie. My sister and brother-in-law adopted their sons, so the DNA and father opinion is close to home. And I appreciate your kind words about our marriage too. Have a blessed weekend and celebration!

  3. A wonderful tribute! You are so right about DNA not making on an automatic father. I love what you said about your hubby’s blue eyes and how you can still get lost in them. That’s what real love looks like!

  4. What a lovely tribute for Father’s Day! And so true “A great father is a man who is emotionally available and actively involved in his child’s life.”. 💕

  5. I think just quietly sitting there in the middle of everything else and it says more about your marriage than a whole essay could. The DNA line needed to be said and I’m glad you said it. A title doesn’t make someone a dad. Showing up does. Being present does. That’s it really.
    Hope the weekend was everything it needed to be. 💕

    1. Your comments are always so thoughtful, Ritish. Thank you! The DNA line is personal since my sister and brother-in-law adopted their two sons. And my hubby had a wonderful weekend.
      Thanks again, and have a terrific Tuesday! ❤️

  6. Lauren, such beautiful sentiments expressed on Father’s Day! I have missed a lot of posts here and elsewhere, but with apologies, I am doing my best to get on track. Life, work, a new website, and so many other things have been an overload. Needless to say, I have dearly missed your writings here; you restore our faith in life, reflecting on the many things that make life so happy, so caring, and so well worth living. I truly miss my parents too!

    1. Hi Don, thanks so much for your wonderful comment. Don’t worry about missing posts. I’m blogging less this year because I’m working on other projects and can’t do it all. So, I’m missing posts too. Anyway, I’m glad this resonated with you, and I’m sure we both have great memories of our parents. Take good care!

  7. This is such a loving post, Lauren. Your tribute to your dad, FIL is beautiful. And the one to your hubby is a pure celebration of love. Thank you for sharing this.

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