Copper got his wings.

We had prepared for ‘the dreaded day’ because of Copper’s age, 14 1/2, but nothing can fully prepare you or prevent your emotions from running wild when that day arrives out of the blue. Yesterday morning, Copper unexpectedly took a turn for the worse and received his angel wings. Matt, the kids, and I…we all sobbed off and on, and the tears will come until they’re all dried up. Our hearts are broken. So many reminders around the house…photos, his beds, chew bone, leash and collar, dog bowls, and dog food. When I saw his bowl of dog treats, I lost it.

But the silver lining is that we were so lucky to have had Copper in our family for almost 13 years. As time passes, the good memories will bring warmth and comfort to our souls. Right now, the grieving is raw. Honestly, I’m an emotional mess. We’ll miss his energy, his pleading for belly rubs, his slobbery kisses and cuddles and snuggles, his unconditional love. Those amber eyes. Sigh. He loved Dad, and his sister and brother more than words can express. But I was his mom, and he followed me everywhere, watching me like a hawk if I walked out of the room. I will miss my shadow. I’m wearing his dog tag as a necklace. I don’t care what people think. He was our family and we miss him so much.πŸ’”

Though yesterday was sad beyond words, there were many blessings in which Copper passed. His suffering began but it didn’t linger. The day was tranquil, the sky blue. And the timing, serendipitous – we adopted Copper and brought him into our hearts in March 2012, and he received his angel wings in March 2025.

We will always love you, Copper Boy! ❀️
Adopted March 27, 2012 – March 3, 2025 Received Angel Wings

I have a billion photos, but here a few of our beloved Copper Boy…

Our 14 1/2 year old puppy – this photo is from my blog post last week. ❀️

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145 thoughts on “Copper got his wings.

  1. Sending much love and peace to you and your loved ones Lauren. I guess you will go through some sad, bad days before you could remember Copper’s bright days and you could recall all the vibrant memories you had of him, with him. It takes time and time is needed to grieve 🧑🧑

    1. Thanks so much, Marie. Right now, we’re living in sadness and pain, but the wonderful memories are coming through too. I don’t know how long our emotions will stay fragile, but grief is different for everyone. One day at a time. He was our family. β€οΈπŸ’”πŸ˜­

  2. D.L. Finn, Author's avatar D.L. Finn, Author

    So sorry, Lauren. We never get enough years with them, but we are still lucky to have the ones we do. Sending big hugs your way. Xo

  3. Aww, my deepest sympathies to you, Lauren, and your family.

    I never met Copper, but you know how fond I am of him. He is the first &only animal I ever drew a portrait of.

    There’s not much to say except I send my heart felt condolences.

    Much love and massive hugs to you and yours!

    xoxoxoxo

    1. Thanks so much, Resa. Aww, the first animal you ever drew. Sigh, tearing up…

      He was a sweetheart with a gentle and loving personality. We miss him so, so much. This week has been tough, but one day at a time. The love and hugs are appreciated. β€οΈπŸ™πŸ’”

  4. I learned of this accidentally when, catching up on your posts, you mentioned Copper’s passing in a comment reply to me.

    Again, I am so very sorry for your loss, Lauren, and to your family as well. From the photos of him I see what a beautiful and lovable companion Copper was to you all. You will indeed miss him for a long time, and that sorrow will break you open while reminding you of all those happy memories… lots of feelings.

    Sending you all loving thoughts in your time of sadness, my friend.

    1. Thanks so much, Steve, for your comforting words…we’re all grieving, and who knows how long it will take, but one day at a time.

      “that sorrow will break you open while reminding you of all those happy memories” this is exactly how we feel… πŸ’”πŸ˜­β€οΈ

  5. Oh Lauren, there are no words for grief, I know. My heart holds yours during this sad time for you and your family! Awww I thought Copper would live forever and was doing well. It always breaks my heart each time. Sending healing, light and love as he crosses the rainbow bridge forever in your heart. I’m sooooo sorry! πŸ˜’πŸ’”β€οΈ

  6. I’m so, so sorry to hear about Copper’s passing. Losing a beloved pet is never easy. The memories you shared are beautiful, and I can only imagine how much you’ll miss his loving presence. Sending you all lots of love, Lauren ❀️

    1. Thanks so much, Ritish, for your wonderful and comforting words. Copper was family and we miss him so much. But we’re trying to find joy in the memories, at least in the midst of the sadness and tears. πŸ˜­β€οΈπŸ’”

  7. Oh Lauren, I am so sorry. Grief is grief and there is nothing you can do but go with it. I’ve always enjoyed your posts with pictures of Copper. When my granddaughters’ dog passed two years ago, I didn’t think any of us would get over losing that sweet dog. She was family. She loved us and we all loved her. Just as Riley is ever in our hearts, so will Copper always be in your heart.

    Sending you and yours lots of love and and healing hugs. ❀️❀️❀️

    1. Thanks so much for your beautiful, loving words, Michelle. Today marks one week since Copper passed, and I honestly don’t know how we made it to today. But later last week, I began writing which has helped. Thank you again! β€οΈπŸ™πŸ’”πŸ˜­

  8. Oh, Lauren, my heart goes out to you and your family for the sadness and heartbreak losing your gorgeous Copper. I too am a lifetime dog lover. Through the years I had dogs in my midst that brought great love and joy to me and my family. Nothing quite compares to the obvious and conscious love and affection, two-way, between a dog and his/her owner, caregiver, protector. A family pet means day and night presence with each other, caring for them when not well, tossing a ball for them to chase down and bring back, tail wagging, and anxious for the fun to continue!

    They have a gaze into our eyes that reveals their trust, happiness, sadness, excitement, and so much more that compares to none other of life experiences, and yes, they are family.

    As I read your words, the emotional rush bringing back so many memories of my own was palpable, real and deeply heartfelt. The beautiful memories do indeed help to release the pain and sorrow, yet the memories will forever live in remembrance.

    1. Hi Don, thanks for your wonderful and comforting comment. I’m glad you understand how I’ve been feeling, and how the grief doesn’t fade in a few days. I appreciate your understanding. The gaze in their eyes. Sigh, and they are family….

  9. How fitting that you adopted copper in March, and he got his angel wings in march, the grief I know is unbearable, but I hope that good memories are starting to come through, and that you can take comfort in the fact you gave him a beautiful and amazing life. Xx

    1. I know, the March to March timeline evolved into a poem in the book, “March to March.” The good memories are beginning to come through, Carol Anne, but we still get teary-eyed now and then. Once in a while, I’ll look at a photo and have a good 2-minute cry. And you’re right, we gave him a loving home and life. Thank you for your compassion. xoxo

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