Even though the sky was a stunning canvas of vibrancy yesterday morning, my mind was in a funk. Worries flooded each thought, and each worry got stuck like gum under a school desk. But I had to get on with the day – first stop was the post office. I was happy to see that street parking was ample. As I pulled up to the curb, I noticed the truck in front of me was about to leave, so I waited. When the truck pulled out, I pulled up, leaving room for parking behind me. I’ve done this a million times before, and sometimes finding a parking spot feels like winning the lottery. Plus, it’s nice to be able to park with lots of room rather than attempting to squeeze in between two cars. Why not make things easy for the next person?
After I finished inside, I headed for my car. As I sat with my foot on the break, hands on the wheel about to leave, a woman pulled up beside me, motioning for me to roll down my window, which I did. She said, “I just want to thank you for pulling up so that the lady behind me and I could pull in right behind you. There’s a lot of rudeness nowadays, so we found your gesture to be very kind.”
“Of course, I was happy to do that.” I replied, a bit surprised by her kind gesture for the same reason. Then we both went on our merry way. However, the funk that dominated my thoughts earlier had dissipated because I brought a smile to two women from a little bit of kindness. What could have been a frustrating undertaking for them was made a little easier – the gift of a parking space!
This moment yesterday may seem unimportant,
but my experience proves that not only does a simple act of kindness
brighten the recipient’s day, but it does the same for the ‘kindness provider.’
“The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the greatest intention.”
~ Kahlil Gibran
Thanks for visiting, have a fabulous day,
and Cheers to spreading more kindness!
The world would be a much better place!
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You once again proved the value of our mama’s advice (or papa’s–or both!)–be aware of your surroundings.
That’s a good takeaway, Jacqui! Thank you! 🥰
You’re so right. Kindness can fill our hearts with joy and bring us peace
Definitely, Sadje. Thanks for reading. 🥰
My pleasure
I think a kindness rendered for no reason by a stranger is the most important- and most impressive type of kindness there is. Thank you for this reminder- and the beautiful song too.
I agree, Violet. What I did was so simple and natural, but to those women, it made a big difference. You’re welcome, and thanks for your lovely words too. 💞
What a beautiful exchange that brings a smile and hope to our world, Lauren. Thanks for sharing my friend! 💗🥂 Have a lovely day!
Thanks, Cindy, and I’m glad you mentioned hope too because when kindness unfolds and ripples, hope shines. And we need more kindness and hope. Wishing you the same! Hugs 💞💫
You’re so very welcome. That’s exactly right.. thanks so much xo❤️
The little things make the biggest difference! Good for you Lauren! 🎉🎉😎😎
Exactly, Brian, which is why I wanted to share mine. This post isn’t about me, but about doing little things to make other’s lives easier. Can you imagine the ripple effect? Maybe the news on TV would shift to a brighter tone too. 🥰
Small kindnesses and being thoughtful are priceless and all flow into the loving energy that lifts us all. Your kindness was loving grace in action, as was the lady taking time to let you know. Like attracts like, lovely Lauren. You are lovely. Xxxx ❤️🌹❤️🌹❤️
“Like attracts like,” so well said and true, Jane. Thanks for reading and for your beautiful words! You are lovely too, dear friend!
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Dearest, lovely Lauren, I forgot to say I love the song in your video. Wishing you both a lovely weekend. Xxxxx ❤️🌹😘❤️
Aww, thanks, beautiful Jane, and wishing you both the same. Hugs and lots of love! 💖🌺💖😍
For some reason, people are always kind and polite at the local post office. I don’t know why. When I go to Walmart, though, it’s just the opposite. People are always arguing and fighting with each other. The other day, a woman deliberately shoved her shopping cart into another customer. I don’t understand this type of behavior. No matter how frustrated I feel, I would never do these things to other people. I let people go ahead of me in line, take the last item on the shelf, etc. It’s certainly better than getting into a fight. Love the video!
That’s interesting, Dawn, and who knows why. My only thought is that everyone has a story, but it doesn’t necessarily justify rude behavior, especially shoving a shopping cart into another customer. Words are one thing and they can hurt. But getting physical is a whole new level of rudeness and unacceptable. I am the same with letting others go in front of me, etc. It takes less energy to be kind than it does to get angry. If only everyone would think this way. Glad you liked the video. Tim McGraw is a favorite, along with this song. Thanks for chiming in. 💞
This was such an uplifting read – becasue we “know” our kindness makes a difference, but rarely do we have someone stop to affirm it – and it was good timing that this lady was able to do that – to thank you.
And your post reminded me of how kindness is contagious and can shake off the funk – ha
Thanks, Yvette, and this line is so true: “but rarely do we have someone stop to affirm it” which is why she caught me off guard. I don’t think anyone’s ever done that before. 🙂 I’m glad you liked this post, and your takeaway is exactly what I’m conveying: “How kindness is contagious and can shake off the funk!” Yes, it can! 🥰
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It’s so easy isn’t it? Yet we forget! And you know what, it brought a smile across the ocean too! 😉
A stunning sky!
Happy Thursday, my dearest friend!
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I know, Marina, so easy, but I’m glad the smile traveled miles across the ocean! Yay! 😁 Thanks about the sky!
Happy Thursday and Friday, my friend! And lots of love and hugs!
🥰❤️💫🌺😘xoxoxo
This is a lovely read on the importance of kindness Lauren.
I shake my head sometimes at how some people behave.
It often feels to me as if the whole world is angry.
A kind word or gesture does not cost a dime and it makes both parties feel good, win, win.
Thank you for sharing dear friend.
Have a wonderful day 🌈🤗❤️🥰
Thanks, Maggie, and I agree with all you said too. It takes less energy to be kind and is so easy! At first, I wondered if this post would be silly. Then I thought about spreading kindness, so no, that’s not silly. And maybe one more reminder would be good. Although, I think those who need the reminder the most probably aren’t going to read this post. 🙂 Oh well! I’m glad it resonated!
Have a wonderful tomorrow! 🥰😘🌷💫xoxoxo
You are correct Lauren..
No reminder should be needed, ever.
Sadly, you cannnot change people either.
We can only lead by example.
Thank you my friend.💙🌈💙
A good day and wonderful weekend to you xoxoxo
Ditto from me, Maggie! Wishing you the same, my friend. Glad it’s Friday and the weekend is near. Hugs and bunches of love coming your way. 💖🌺😘💫🤗🦋
Ditto / snap Lauren 🥰💕🦋🌈❤️ enjoy ! xoxox
🙂 xoxoxoxoxoxo
A great lesson today, Lauren. Kindness is at a premium today. I’m glad you made those two women’s day as well as your own.
Thanks so much, John, and I agree. And I think that exchange was a win, win for all of us. 🥰
It looked that way.
That’s so true. I can do a small act of kindness for someone, or receive one and it makes all the difference in my day.
I’m glad this post resonated with you, Elizabeth. Thanks for chiming in, and Cheers to spreading kindness! 🥰
isn’t it amazing how kindness, begets kindness? it can change everything in an instant. people do feel it, it goes right to our hearts.
If only more would see the benefits, think of what the world would be like, how our country would change in a wonderful way. Well, like John Lennon sang, “Imagine…” Thanks for adding to the conversation, Beth. 🥰
Reminds me of one of my phrases – Why be mean when you can be nice for the same price.
Exactly! Thanks for visiting and chiming in, Clay!
A perfect object lesson for our times!
Thanks, Liz! Cheers to more kindness! 🥰
You’re welcome, Lauren!
great post; thanks Lauren: I’ve bookmarked that quote 🙂
Thanks, John! I’m glad you enjoyed this post. Cheers to kindness! 😃
yes !!!
This is so true. Kindness makes the doer and the receiver happy. It brightens our day when someone appreciates our small act of kindness. Stay so kind, Lauren!
Thanks, Hazel, you too, and have a good weekend!
Have a blessed weekend, Lauren. You’re always welcome
Those who are kind benefit themselves, but the cruel bring ruin on themselves. Proverbs 11:17.
Thank you for sharing.
I’m glad you liked this post, and thank you for adding to the conversation.
You are welcome.
Hi Lauren, I agree about there being a lot of rudeness about. I experienced this a lot during my current trip and I just wonder why people are so inconsiderate and selfish. It so nice when people do something simple but helpful like you did.
I think social media and instant gratification are factors, Robbie. Just my opinion. I see it in our area, on the roads, in the stores. It’s too bad. But it’s amazing how a small act of kindness can make a positive difference. I’ve never been thanked in person, so this was really nice.
It’s lovely to be thanked
Love this story of kindness, Lauren. What a difference it makes! And the Tim McGraw song? So good!
I’m glad you liked this story, Wynne. If only kindness would spread faster than hate. And who can go wrong with Tim McGraw? Have a good weekend ahead! 💞🎶
I guess kindness is in short supply in today’s world. I remember when my wife and I were walking in a mall and as usual my wife smiles to those who passed by. A little later there was a tap on her shoulder and a woman moved to face her. “You are the first person to smile at me in a long time. Thank you! She said. A smile costs us nothing.
Thanks for sharing your wife’s story, Ian. We need more of these stories, and you’re right, a smile costs us nothing. 😁
I agree wholeheartedly Lauren! It’s day to day simple acts of kindness that make the difference. And help us go through worrying days. One of them can bring so much light to our life!
Well chosen song! Thank you for sharing this with us. You made my day!!
Wishing you a lovely weekend to come. Hugs from France. 💙🌞
Aww, I’m so glad I made your day with this post, Marie! Here’s wishing for kindness to spread. Thanks for your wonderful words too. Wishing you a lovely weekend too, dear friend, and I’m sending lots of love and hugs to France! 💗🌷😘
Hi Lauren
We agree with you. There was a German author Bert Brecht, who praised friendliness as the highest virtue.
We wish you a happy weekend
The Fab Four of Cley
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Thanks, Klausbernd, and that is a great quote. It costs nothing to be kind, but the rewards are much greater for both people. Wishing you a wonderful weekend too. 🥰
That was nice of you to do that, and nice that the lady mentioned it.
Thanks, Binky. I didn’t give it much thought, but it was nice of the other lady. That’s a first for me. The world needs more kindness.
The simplest acts of kindness can another’s day so much brighter, Lauren. 🫠
I’m glad you agree, Eugi. But I know you would because you’re kindhearted. 🙂 ❣
Aww, thank you, Lauren. 💐
Endearing story, lovely Lauren and don’t you just love those unexpected moments and angels who come along and brighten the day, like you do so graciously. 🌞 Thank you for sharing. Although part of life, hope the funk you were feeling has moved out! 🩷
Thanks, Michele, and what I did took no thought at all. But I’ve never been thanked in person like this woman thanked me. So that was nice, and nice to know that I brightened her day. And thanks for mentioning the funk; it has moved out! Hope you have a fab weekend! 😍🌷💞
So very nice. Shows how receptive and ready people are for kind gestures. 💝😊💐
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The simplest of kindness changes the direction of the wind.
Thanks for adding to the conversation, Mary. 🌺
Wonderful Lauren and this week it seems I have met the other side of the coin when parking… thank you for sharing ♥♥
Thanks, Sally, and oh no! It sounds like your experience wasn’t a good one. I’m glad you enjoyed this post though. Have a great weekend! 💖
Great story, Lauren. It’s amazing how an act of basic kindness and consideration can have such an effect on others, and ourselves in the doing of it, whether or not it’s noticed. But when it’s noticed, it creates the opportunity for a chance meeting and sharing of goodwill like you experienced. I hope you have a wonderful weekend and find all the parking spots you need!
It’s the simple things in life, Steve! 🙂 Thanks for popping in, and wishing you the same. LOL Have a good weekend too! 🚙🌞
My pleasure, and thank you, Lauren! ☀️
Agreed! It’s the simple things! Kindness goes a long way for everyone too.
Thanks, Sis! Love ya!
Absolutely one kindness makes a huge boost in one’s day. And one of my fav videos, gorgeous Tim singing a most beautiful song. 💙💚
I’m glad you enjoyed the story and song, Debby. You can’t go wrong with Tim, and Cheers to more kindness. The U.S. and the world could surely use more! 💖
Amen to that my friend. 💚❣
Spreading kindness is a good thing, so glad you did! And your kindness was returned! And glad the func you were in disapated! X
I’m happy to spread kindness, Carol Anne, and it was nice of that woman to thank me. That’s never happened before, and what I did didn’t take much thought. It’s about consideration for others. And yes, the funk has left for good. Hugs xo
Those little moments of 2-way kindness make my day too, Lauren.
Those of us who know that and live that way, make the world a better place.
What the tarnation are the rest up to?
xoxx💓oxoo
I agree, Resa, and who knows? But we need more kindness and less hate and violence, for sure. Thanks for stopping by! xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
100% for sure!
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Lauren, you are so right! Whenever I see someone who needs a kind word or deed or a smile, I always try to brighten their day, and in return, it makes me feel so good! We never know what happened in someone’s life and a smile or kind word, or even sitting down and listening to their story can make a huge difference. Love and hugs to you, my dear friend.