Deeper Wells and Soft Voices

On By Lauren Scott, AuthorIn Discussion, Poetry

Recently, I listened to the new album by Kacey Musgraves. For those of you who aren’t familiar with her, she’s a country singer with a clear voice that soothes as smooth as honey. Her voice has been described by loyal fans as a mother singing sweetly to her baby. I liked the album, but a few songs stood out and one is “Deeper Well.” It touches on letting go of people and habits that hinder us from becoming the best versions of ourselves. I hope you enjoy the song.

Deeper Well
by Kacey Musgraves

My Saturn has returned
When I turned twenty-seven
Everything started to change

Took a long time, but I learned
There’s two kinds of people, one is a giver
And one’s always tryin’ to take
All they can take

So I’m sayin’ goodbye to the people
That I feel are real good at wastin’ my time
No regrets, baby, I just think that maybe
You go your way and I’ll go mine
It’s been a real good time
But you got dark energy, somethin’ I can’t unsee
And I’ve got to take care of myself
I found a deeper well

I used to wake and bake
Roll out of bed, hit the gravity bong that I made
And start the day
For a while, it got me by
Everything I did seemed better when I was high
I don’t know why

So I’m gettin’ rid of the habits that I feel
Are real good at wastin’ my time
No regrets, baby, I just think that maybe
It’s natural when things lose their shine
So other things can glow
I’ve gotten older now, I know
How to take care of myself
I found a deeper well

When I was growing up
We had what we needed, shoes on our feet
But the world was as flat as a plate
And that’s okay

The things I was taught only took me so far
Had to figure the rest out myself
And then I found
I found a deeper well

After listening to the lyrics, I was reminded of my father-in-law who saw the good in everyone. I try to do the same, but some people make it more challenging. And age is irrelevant because people who dim the lights in our worlds cross our paths in different phases of our lives. Discerning the truth may happen sooner, or it might take a little longer. But it’s a healthy realization because life is too short. We never know what tomorrow will bring. So, why waste it dealing with people who push us down?

So I’m sayin’ goodbye to the people that I feel are real good at wastin’ my time.

The same thing applies to habits, but breaking habits is easier said than done. And yet, why waste the days doing things that aren’t beneficial to our well-being?

So I’m gettin’ rid of the habits that I feel are real good at wastin’ my time.

I don’t pay close attention to celebrities personal lives, but I heard through the grapevine that Kacey has lived through some emotionally tough times. So, the lyrics are about starting new, starting fresh, and shedding anyone who doesn’t help move her forward in a positive manner. They’re about shedding habits that prevent her from living a healthy life so she can stay focused. The notion of self-care is nothing new, but it’s certainly ongoing. It’s infinite as the years fly by, whether we’re single, married, in a relationship, young, middle-aged, or older. Confidence should be worn on our sleeves instead of erratic emotions to keep our personal spaces sacred and to live each day in ways that will initiate a ‘Thank you’ from our minds and bodies. I couldn’t help but write more limericks…

To Better Our Lives

Some people appear to be the very best
But with each day, we are put to the test
Words become nothing
Actions become something
Triggering our minds and hearts to stress.

Decisions are reached to better our lives
Time to exterminate negative vibes
Personas fake as fur
Relations to deter
Circumstances guiding towards kinder tribes.

Living under a Clear Sky

Habits entice to some like bourbon on ice
They have one goal in mind and it isn’t nice
constant brain fog
living in smog
Are you willing to pay the steep price?

Break the stubborn habit and break it good
So you can make the most of your adulthood
Stay focused with verve
To you, you will serve
Deep down inside, you knew you could!

Do you remember the coloring that I attempted month’s ago? It’s from a book titled, “Let that Sh*t Go!” which ties into this post. This fun little book by Monica Sweeney packs in an abundance of wisdom (some four-letter words included), along with adult coloring, as you can see. Well, I finally finished and here is the result:

It’s not a work of perfection, but it’s definitely cheerful,
and the process was fun!

What did you think about the song? Did this post resonate?
Did a limerick stand out for you?
Cheers to Letting Go, Self-Care, and Creativity,
and more awareness to people who try to steal the light
from our worlds.
Thanks for popping in! I appreciate you!
❤️🩷🧡💜💙

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88 thoughts on “Deeper Wells and Soft Voices”

  2. What a nice reflection inspired by Kacey Musgraves, Lauren. Yes, we try to see the good in people but when they show us their dark side and dark energy, it’s time to say goodbye. Can’t continue to waste our time. Great message and poem girlfriend. 😍💖😘

  3. It’s a good song. I realize it’s important to get rid of people that bring us down, but I also believe we shouldn’t give up on people. Sometimes their negativity comes from a dark place and they need someone in their corner. I do try to find the best in people and add some positivity in their lives. And I will never get rid of a family member no matter what. (yes, I’ve been tempted at times!)

    1. I think this topic has many nuances, Darlene, because you bring up good points that I agree with. But I also believe there is a fine line, and it’s up to us to be able to see it and decide on what is best for us. Some people could just need others in their corner because they’re going through difficult times, but some people are downright cruel. I’m so thankful for my family, no issues there. 🙂 Thanks for adding to the conversation! xo

    1. I’m glad you enjoyed the song, Robbie, and thanks for your kind words about my limericks. My serious limericks are inspired by you because of the ones I’ve read in your books. This type of poem is probably meant to be humorous, but it’s liberating to step out of the box. 🙂 🥰

  10. Thank you for sharing those lyrics Lauren, I feel that they reflect the times we are in.. As we now see the divides more clearly and no longer put our energy into those places, people or projects that wastes our time.

    Instead we focus on trying to be kind and loving… 
    So enjoyed your own poetry Lauren too.. Very powerful… Your words however are far from nothing… 🙂 For you put them in Action..

    Loved your colouring artwork too…. Did you let the sh*t go?? lol 🙂
    Big smiles and lots of Hugs xxx ❤ with much love Lauren xx ❤ xx

    1. Hi Sue, I’m glad the lyrics resonated with you, and yes to always trying to
      be kind and loving…thanks so much for your kind, kind words about my poems. And I’m glad you liked my artwork. I’m no artist like you are, but having fun is part of the reward. As to letting the sh*t go, well, this has always been a work in progress for me because I feel so deeply – my emotions are no secret to anyone who knows me, a characteristic I’m not always proud of, but I’ve never been successful at changing. So, I’m forever in the letting go phase, but it’s all good. 🙂 You made me laugh out loud when you asked that? Lots of love and hugs to you, dear friend! ❤️🤗🙏😂😂😂

      1. We who feel and are sensitive have a harder time of letting go.
        But I’m learning to shed more and more as time goes by xx 😘 😉 💕
        Happy I made you laugh out loud lol 😆 😂 🤣

  14. Yes, the song struck a chord (no pun intended). Turning 27 was a pivotal time for me to shed a toxic relationship. I remember sitting in the kitchen thinking, If I don’t take some action, the rest of my life is going to be like this.

  16. Yes, I’ve heard some of her music, I need to listen to more, really like this song. “We never know what tomorrow will bring. So, why waste it dealing with people who push us down?” I had to remember this today. A lesson that the “people pleaser in me” sometimes forgets. Thanks for the reminder. Ha, ha.

    1. I’m glad you liked this post, Brian, and that it serves as a good reminder for you. When I first heard this song, it struck a chord 🙂 just like it did for Liz. But there are several songs that I like on the album, so I hope you get a chance to listen to it. Thanks for chiming in! 🥰

    1. I’m so glad every aspect of this post was touching, Carol. This song really struck a chord :), so a post came to mind on the topic, and then I had to write limericks. 🙂 Thanks so much for your wonderful words! ❤️

  18. I love your post and the message you are sharing with it. The deeper well song is great. Sometimes you have to move on in life and let the negative vibes behind! Your limericks sum it all up very well.

  19. Lauren,

    I have found it important to check my energy around others. Do I feel good still? Am I depleted? For many years, I wasn’t awake to the energetic changes I experienced around others. Now, I am much better at it and teach it to others. Thanks for your posts, they get me thinking….

    Many Blessings

    Lisa xoxo

    1. Thanks for joining into the conversation, Lisa, and for the high complement. This song really struck a chord 🙂 which, of course, inspired a blog post. I’m much better as I get older, but I do have moments when it’s hard to see the truth and let go. I want to look for good, but the good isn’t always ‘there’ for the seeing. I appreciate your insight as well. 🩷🌷🩷

      1. I have been there as well, looking for the good, when it wasn’t there. This caused me a lot of emotional pain. I am much more cautious in my approach because I was too open before, to a few people who didn’t consider me. It’s all learning and I have become stronger for it. 🙏

  20. I love your cheerful art, Lauren, and Kacey’s lyrics, your limericks resonate. Life is too short to be in a toxic relationship. I try to look for the good in people but those who are unkind have no place in my life. 💖

  21. A great song with Lyrics and love your poems to highlight it. I totally agree with you on letting go of people that don’t serve you anymore. Even the ones that you still care for! Beautiful coloring! 💕

    1. Thanks for your kind words, Cindy, and I’m glad you liked the song and lyrics and can relate to the message. And thanks about the coloring. 🙂 I look at it now and see areas where I could improve it, but it’s done. I’ve moved on. LOL But the relaxing and fun was worth it. Have a good day! 💖

  23. I’m a big country music fan, but Kacey is new to me, loved this piece. Thank you for sharing. I love the message. At my age, letting go of all things that don’t serve me is a great practice, and one that continually challenges me. Loved the poem. You write beautifully. Hugs, C

    1. Another country music fan, yay, Cheryl, and I’m happy to introduce you to Kacey. I found out about her from my kids. Glad you liked the song and message, and that’s how I feel. As we grow older, it’s amazing how some things become clearer, but like you, it’s not always easy letting go. And thanks for your lovely words that encourage me to keep putting thoughts to paper (or laptop). 🙂 Hugs and love to you, my friend! xo

  24. Hi Lauren, I liked the song – thank you for introducing me to Kacey’s music. I’m not sure I’ve heard her before.

    I am challenged by a couple of important relationships so your post resonated for me, as did the song, though I am working at keeping those relationships; not ready to write them off. Kacey does indeed have a soothing tone, though, one that reminds me it’s important to take care of ourselves.

    The poems were also enjoyable and resonant, and I liked the finished colouring. It’s a cold rainy, dreary day here so the infusion of colour is welcome. A lovely post, thank you.

    1. I’m glad you liked the song and message in this post, Steve, and I understand about not writing off people so fast. Some are worth it to hang on and try to do what’s needed to find a happy balance for both. I love Kacey’s voice because of its soothing quality, so I’m happy you feel the same. I appreciate your kindness about my limericks, and it’s wonderful that my coloring brightened your day. 🙂 I look at it now and see where I could make improvements, but it’s unimportant. It was fun and relaxing to work on, and now off to the next project! Again, thanks for your wonderful comment, and have a wonderful day! Hope today is sunny and bright! 🤗

      1. More rain today, Lauren, but that’s okay – we need it with so much dirt and so little moisture all winter. I trust the promise that the sun is there behind the clouds.

        I hope you are having a good day! 🤗

  27. I don’t usually listen to country, so I never would have discovered this song. Yes, it resonates deeply with me . . . out with the old. Not always as easy as it sounds, though. We keep a large calendar on my fridge to write daily goals/tasks. It reminds us to focus on one day at a time. Thanks for sharing, Lauren.

  29. It’s a lovely song, Lauren.

    I’m listening again while I comment.

    Yes, it can be hard shedding that which holds us back, is detrimental to health and progression of life.

    I shed my blood family when I was 17. It was many years until I ventured to visit the few who I still cared about.

    I live and have lived far away from them. I am close only to one niece, and we are extremely close. I did send mom money while she was alive.

    Okay… look what your thoughts brought out of me!

    Your limericks are wonderful, right on for this post.

    Your painting is is definitely positive with its colourful take. Yes, art is fun!

    Think I’ll draw tonight!

    💖🌺🕊🌸💖💖🌺🕊🌸💖

    1. I’m glad you liked the song, Resa, and thanks for sharing about your family, though I’m sorry to hear what you’ve gone through. Although, it’s wonderful that you and your niece are very close. Thanks for your kind words about my limericks (so fun to write, and more are coming), and about the painting, well, it was fun, no work of art, but fun and I love the colors. 🙂 Did you do some drawing? Hugs, my friend! 🩷💐🩷💐🩷🎼🎶

      1. First off…HUGS!
        You are so kind, Lauren. I don’t often open up, so thank you.
        Yes, the limericks are coming out of you wonderfully. I really enjoy them!
        Yes, I drew last night. I’m almost finished Freddie Mercury’s portrait.
        What a challenge!
        Also, the new Art Gown is done, and I’ve been taking pics. This is a lot of fun, finally after 6 months of Zen sewing.
        🌺💖🌟🌺🌺💖🌟

      2. Okay, gotta send more hugs! They’re on their way! And wow! I can’t wait to see your creativity! You’ve been super busy, but I’m sure the portrait and gown are spectacular! Have a good evening, and Happy Earth Day! xoxo🌏🥰🌏🌷🌏🩷

  31. “I found a deeper well.” What a stunning line and I so loved listening to the musicality of this song. Your limericks were the perfect note to then end on. ❤

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