
The foundation was solid,
love was the glue,
but they are gone now –
the foursome that guided,
supported, and encouraged.
Tears spill into our days,
but so do the memories
and celebrations
of the lives they lived.
Our eyes are open to
the legacies they have left
and the yesterdays that
were shared with them.
So we honor their wishes…
We will smile for our tomorrows.
© Lauren Scott, Baydreamerwrites.com – All rights reserved.
Photo: Our wedding day on January 21, 1989 with our beloved parents.
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we will smile for our tomorrows. I wish the same for you.
~ Lauren ❤️
Hi Lauren! I think your poem is super! It is sad, but also full of hope. Hope for a better tomorrow, xxoxoxoxo
Thanks, Carol Anne. My last post was about my father-in-law’s passing, and prior posts were about watching him decline. But he’s moved onto a better place for all of our parents to be together again. ❤️❤️
Such a beautiful and moving tribute
Thanks so much, Sadje. xoxo
You’re most welcome
I especially love the last line Lauren because I believe they want us to live our lives.
As hard as it is without them sometimes 😪
Thank you for sharing 💖
You are so right, Maggie, even through the grieving, they’d want us to move on with our lives. Thanks for reading and for your kind words. 🩷🙏🏻
My pleasure Lauren 🤗
Take good care 🥰🌹
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You’re right – the pain of loss will eventually fade, but the memories won’t.
Thanks for chiming in, Anneli. It’s surreal not having any parents living now, but these words, though simple, came to mind. ❤️
It takes some getting used to. Mine have been gone a long time, but I think of them often.
Hi Lauren, a beautiful tribute to both sets of parents.
Thanks so much, Robbie. I appreciate your lovely comment. 💞
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Wonderful tribute to your parents Lauren 🤝🌹
Thanks very much, Srikanth. 🙏🏻❤️
What a wonderful picture of all 6 of you. My parents are gone but Hubby’s are still with us. His dad is 91 and still doing quite well despite mobility issues. A lovely poem. xo
Thanks so much, Darlene, and I’m sorry about your parents, but I’m glad your husband’s are still with you and 91 is a long life. It’s so surreal not having any living parents anymore. My mom lived to be 90 and my dad, 97. And Wil surpassed them both by reaching 100. 🙂 My MIL died young at 59 from lung cancer. That was tragic because we didn’t have much time to say our goodbyes or prepare. Thanks about the poem too. I wrote it on the fly, nothing fancy, but meaningful. ❤️🙏🏻
A very moving tribute to the parents in your life. (I don’t mind a sad tone when the writer is feeling sad.)
Thanks for your lovely words, Liz, and for your understanding. I needed to write and share during this process, but I will lift the spirits of this blog in the near future. 🩷🙏🏻
You’re welcome, Lauren. All in good time. 🙂
Looking back at pictures like these is indeed the glue that holds our generations together. Lovely poem, Lauren.
Definitely, Barbara. We love going through old photo albums, remembering those days when our parents were still with us. Thanks for your lovely words. ❤️🙏🏻
So nice to see in our selfish world of the day that there are still those who genuinely honor their parents and appreciate what they did to nurture us into maturity.
We had great relationships with our parents, Ian, so it’s easy to honor them. My father-in-law was our only living parent since my dad passed in 2017. Now with all of them gone, it is very surreal. ❤️
Such a beautiful tribute to the parents in your life, Lauren. 💕
Thanks for your lovely comment, Eugi. ❤️🙏🏻
You are welcome, Lauren.
A lovely tribute to your parents, Lauren. ❤
Thanks so much, Carol, for your lovely words. 🩷🙏🏻
I know you “will smile for your tomorrows” but sadness is also part of our lives. We must honor every part of it. Beautiful, my dear friend. xoxoxoxoxo
You said it so well, Marina. Thank you for always ‘being there’ to support. Sending huge hugs for a wonderful week ahead. xoxoxoxo
and a huge huge hug from me, Lauren. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
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It is fitting that your posts reflect the feeling in your life at present, Lauren, and that’s part of where the beauty of your work comes from. It is a powerful image to see both sets of parents in the photo; a moment in time never to be repeated in the same way, yet a rich source of memory, but also guidance, support and encouragement as you say. Many blessings to you, your husband and family in this time when the link between grief and gratitude gradually becomes clearer.
You have a wonderful way with words, Steve. Thank you so much for your insightful comment and blessings. And your last line is so poignant: “when the link between grief and gratitude gradually becomes clearer.” ❤️🙏🏻
Thank you, Lauren. I’m so glad my words are helpful. 💙🙏🏼
You were a beautiful bride and such a sweet tribute to your parents.
Aww, thanks for your lovely words, Pooja. That was almost 35 years ago. Where has the time gone? ❤️
You’re so welcome. True, time truly flies.
It is sad when they’re gone, but that was a nice tribute to them.
Thanks for your kind words, Binky. I appreciate them very much…
Feeling this poem, Lauren, with its impactful and immediate emotion! A bittersweet poetic remembrance. ❤
Thanks for your compassionate words, Layla. Bittersweet is right. xoxo
Right on, Lauren.
We must live, best we can.
“Time keeps on slipping slipping slipping, into the future” – Steve Miller
Hugs!!!!! xxx
Your words are palpable Lauren. ❤
Thanks again, Debby. Hugs to you, my friend. xoxo
Hugs flowing back to you Lauren. ❤ xx
Absolutely beautiful friend
Thank you! 🙏🏻
This is classic. Weddings in the 1970s, 1980s, and 1990s have a unique beauty and solemnity. Btw, I love your poem, Lauren! ♡︎
Thanks so much, Kris. It’s been almost 35 years ago. A special memory with our parents. 🩷