
Hello dear Friends!
Even though my blog break during the holidays was wonderful, while also toasting to my late Father-in-Law who passed in October, I have missed you all! I hope your holidays were filled with love, laughter, family and friends, along with good food and drink! When I was thinking about what I’d post for my return to the land of blogging, some prior content came to mind, so here we go again (a little revised)…
It seems time becomes more clever as we bid adieu to each year. Do the minutes and months feel more fleeting as we clink our bubbly-filled glasses on the last day of the year? Now that weβve dipped our toes into 2024, is your list of resolutions hanging on your fridge by a favorite magnet?βπ

As I reminisce about last year’s glories and sorrows, Iβve concluded that resolutions may just be a thing of the past. This doesn’t mean that setting goals isnβt effective. It’s good to have projects to work on, to keep our brains stimulated, and it’s healthy to keep our bodies moving if goals include incorporating more physical activity or getting in better shape. So, as we ponder our new set of goals, let’s remember to reach for them at our own pace – don’t worry about what others are doing. Okay, let’s expand on this…
Here are a few words from the author, Kirsten Sevig:
βI decided to measure success in happiness, progress, wisdom, accumulating rejection and failure, resilience and determination, pride in my work, confidence, and comparing only to myself instead of to others.βΒ

Since a new year is upon us, it’s logical to wonder if we’re on the right path to success. But define success. Do you measure success in dollar signs only? Have you compared your accomplishments to those of your friends or acquaintances then easily beat yourself up for not achieving as much?Β Iβm not afraid to admit that I’m guilty of doing this because comparing is a common human behavior. But itβs not a healthy habit to continue. Comparing your success to others can cause a lack of self-esteem, and in severe cases, depression that can trigger a breakdown. I donβt compare anymore, and maybe with age comes wisdom, or perhaps, the notion of βI donβt give a sh*t!β Sometimes, we care too much about trivial things, so itβs up to us to shift our mindset β no one can do it for us – mind over matter, remember? Put your cares and energy into the right stuff!
I hope this wisdom enlightens your visions for this new year full of opportunities! And even though you and I may have read similar encouragement before, this affords us another chance to create a new year in our lives that will bring contentment and true happiness.
Below is a fun poem I wrote a few years back that I hope you enjoy again, or even for the first time, as we welcome a new class of 365 days:
There wereβ¦
High points to celebrate
Low points to tolerate
Tears that flowed
but eventually slowed
Lessons to realize
Adventures to feel alive
Demons to fight
Wrongs to right
Goals completed
Some deleted
Yet, looking back
we witness impact
More time to forgive
Another year to live
Accelerate in high gear
No invite for fear
Pour the bubbles
Forget your troubles
Clink and Chime
Celebrate Big Time!

It’s good to be back, and I look forward to reading your posts again!
Happy New Year, and may 2024 be a good one for us all! π₯³π₯β€οΈ
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Perfect words to mark the end of one year and the beginning of another.
Thanks, VJ! Happy New Year! π
Happy New Year, Lauren
Happy New Year Laurenππ
Wishing you and yours much health and happiness !
Thanks, Maggie! I hope you had a wonderful holiday! Happy New Year! π₯³β€οΈ
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Good to see you back. A very happy new year to you too
Thanks, Sadje! It’s good to be back. I hope all is well with you! Hugs!
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All good thoughts, Lauren. My best to you and your family as you make your way through 2024.
I’m glad you enjoyed this, Curt! I’ll have to catch up on your elephant posts in the next few days. π And I hope your holiday was wonderful! Happy New Year!
Great holiday, Lauren, spent with our daughter, her husband and two of our five grandsons. (It’s all boys.) One more elephant post to go! Hopefully on Monday.
That sounds wonderful, Curt! Our adult son and daughter were home too, so it was magical (even w/o little ones yet). π I look forward to your post!
Laughing. Here it is Sunday evening and I am sitting in a hotel in Baltimore overlooking the Inner Harbor. I made my final selection on photos today but haven’t done any of the writing. Good thing my deadlines are flexible. π
Haha! Sounds so relaxing and lovely. Enjoy! Tomorrow is work for us, but it’s all good! π Yep, good thing you’re the boss!
I shipped Peggy out of here on a mother/daughter cruise with our daughter Tasha for two weeks. I’m footloose and fancy free! I may head for North Carolina tomorrow, or New York City, or not. Who knows: It’s a road trip!
Oh, that sounds wonderful for the girls, and enjoy your time too! Make the most of it! Happy travels!
Going great out here, Lauren. Peggy and Tasha are enjoying their cruise and I’m exploring Delaware, a state that I had driven through but never spent any time in. I do love road trips. π
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Thanks so much, Sara! I wish you a wonderful, creative new year! π
You too! Xx
Wishing you a very Happy inspired New Year Lauren, and I agree I feel new year resolutions are a thing of the past.. I feel we all are experiencing the speed of these years, both young and old alike.. as they whiz past us ever faster..
I love your choice of poem too, so relevant in that we need to right wrongs, and focus on our goals as we enter into trying to create a better world where all can thrive.
Love the biker photo of you both I presume π
Keep flying , writing, and BEing Lauren.. β€ xx
Hi Sue! I hope you had a beautiful holiday. Thanks for your wonderful words, as always, and it’s so surreal how time manages to fly faster and faster. π I’m sure you agree that it’s scary out there. So, let’s hope change happens for the best. And yes, that’s hubby and I on his adventure bike. π
Cheers to more love, light, adventure, and peace! Sending hugs, my friend. β€οΈβ€οΈπ₯³
Wonderful to see you on your bike adventure.. And thank you Lauren, we had a lovely Christmas, quiet, just with family… but most enjoyable…
Lots of love sent back to you my friend xx β€
May your 2024 be filled with happiness and creativity.
Thanks so much, Gabriela! I wish you the same, dear friend! β€οΈ
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Haha. “Here we go again” is how I feel too. Happy New Year — and hugs!
You made me laugh, Teagan! After I posted the title, even I thought that it could be perceived in many ways. π But ‘Here we go again’ into 2024, and I wish you
a great, creative new year! But I have no doubt because of your talent and imagination, which I’ve mentioned before. Hugs to you! ππ€
Beautiful transition into the new year! May the words flow, Lauren. β£οΈ
Thanks so much, Layla, and I wish you the same! ππ€π«
Yes, keep adventure in your heart!
I’m glad you agree, Anneli! Hope you had a wonderful holiday! π By the way, your book is up next to read after I’m done with my current book. π
Thanks so much, Lauren. Hope you like it.
Happy new year π₯³
Thank you, Kaushal, and thanks for following me too! Happy New Year and I followed you back. π«
Truly my pleasure! Welcome always π
Welcome back, my dearest friend!
Here’s to contentment and true happiness, 366 [Leap! ;-)] days!
Love and many hugs, Lauren. Happy 2024!
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Thanks, Marina, and oops, forgot it was a Leap year! π Okay, 366 days to make it a good one! I hope you had a lovely holiday, my friend. Love and many hugs to you back! π€βοΈππ₯π
Hugs and love back to you tenfold!
Lets hope it’s a lucky Leap year! π
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Love Kirsten Sevigβs quote and your poem too βthey remind me that if I keep things that matter
Love Kirsten Sevigβs quote and your poem too βthey remind me that if I keep my eyes on the things that matter, good things will happen. Happy New Year, Lauren!
Thanks so much, Brian, and that’s a great attitude and one that I choose to have too. I will share your post soon, and I’d also like to share on IG, but you can only add so much text. So I have to pull a little about Kym’s book and a little about mine, then share your link. Anyway, you really added more light to this new year for me and I’m sure for Kym too. Happy New Year! π₯³π€
Yes, Iβm so sorry, as I was writing the post, it hit me that I didnβt make it easy for you to pick up and use. Iβm sorry! I know from others that promotion can be challenging, almost strange. However, a former boss told me recently that itβs brought out a side of him he didnβt know existed. His book includes some local history and heβs kept busy with talks and lectures. Heβs actually had a blast. I guess it comes down to how you look at things. Ha ha
Oh my gosh, Brian, you don’t have to apologize! Now I feel bad! You did such a great job on your post, leading up to our books. So, I’m sorry now! I’ll share it soon, which hopefully will bring you more traffic too. That’s great about your former boss. But yes, promoting one’s own book has its challenges. I’m sure many get tired of seeing posts about my book, but I only have me to promote it, along with anyone who enjoyed it and does the same, like you. π The joy of being an indie author, but it’s all good. Still very exciting and humbling. So, please know I appreciate your wonderful, humorous post! π
Who knows indie author today, tomorrow, the right influencer or morning tv show producer reads your collection and is touched by it, promotes it and you’re rockin up the best seller list. Ha, ha, I’m just kidding. But I get writing for the pure enjoyment.
Haha is right, Brian! You are too funny, my friend! Yes, I write because I love word play, and it touches me when others enjoy my poetry. I love to know which poems stand out for them and why. There’s just something so gratifying about those personal nuggets of knowledge.
Happy New Year, Lauren! I don’t make resolutions any more. I’ll continue to do what works for me in the past years but make adjustments along the way. I love the quote. Comparing only to myself keeps our sanity.
Thanks, Miriam, and I think you have a great plan. That’s basically what I do, along with adding new goals that come up. I’m glad you agree with the quote too. “Comparing only to myself keeps our sanity.” Very smart! Love it! Happy New Year to you and yours! π
Thank you, Lauren! My grandkids will be here for a few hours because their parents have a work party this evening! π
That sounds fun! Enjoy your time with them! Since we don’t have grandkids yet, just having our adult kids around is magical. π xo
Happy New Year to you as well! And loved the poem, definitely a fun one to read π
Thanks, Pooja! I hope you had a wonderful holiday and glad you liked the poem. π Happy New Year, and may 2024 be super good to you! β€οΈ
I did thank you and wishing you the same for 2024! β€οΈ
Thank you for the encouragement, Lauren. I need it today.
You’re so welcome, Liz, and I hope you’re okay…π
Thank you, Lauren. I just attended a publishing webinar that was more discouraging than helpful. (I should have known better.)
Sorry to hear that, Liz. But I’m glad my post could cheer you up a little bit. π
Thanks. It did. π
Happy new year, Lauren! Cute poem. I don’t create resolutions, but I do set intentions. They seem softer and help me set soft goals to strive for.
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I’m glad you liked the poem, Yvette, and I like your idea of setting intentions. They do seem softer. I’m going to keep this in mind. π Happy New Year! ππ€
Wishing you the very best year 2024 has to offer you and your family.
Thanks so much, Ian, and I wish the very same to you! π
Happy New Year!
Thanks, Andrew! Hope you have a very happy new year!
I love your poem! β€ And I also very much appreciate your reminder on putting your cares and energy on the right stuff.
Happy 2024, Lauren!
Thanks, Carol! I’m so glad you like the poem and the reminder. π And I hope your holidays were wonderful. Happy New Year! π©·π
Lauren, your bright and positive voice sparkles across the blogosphere and a lovely uplifting post for the start of 2024! Yes, I too have ditched resolutions and like the idea of goals instead. I love your poem, itβs got a great sense of energy and perfect thoughts as we step into the unknown of the new year. Hugs, Annika xx β€οΈ
Thanks for your wonderful words, Annika! I’m glad you loved the fun poem and agree about ditching the resolutions. I hope you’ll have more time for blogging this year, and may 2024 be the best for us all! Hugs and love to you, my friend. π©·π€
Happy New Year, Lauren. I don’t make resolutions but set mini-goals instead. Welcome back! π
Thanks so much, Eugi, and I think goals have won the race so far! π I appreciate the welcome and hope you had a wonderful holiday. Happy New Year! π©·π«
You’re most welcome, Lauren. We had a enjoyable and peaceful holiday. We went to bed at 10 pm on NYE, and woke up ready for 2024.π
Lovely reflection and inspiration, Lauren. π Thank you and best wishes for 2024. πβ¨
Thanks for your lovely words, Michele! Wishing you the same for this new year. And by the way, my review for Her Coastal Cottage should be on GR and Amazon. I plan to do quarterly review blog posts if all goes smoothly, so March will be the first and will include yours. Happy New Year! ππ
You’re most welcome, Lauren. I am sorry for your personal recent loss. Happy to read you again. Thank you so much about my novella! What a wonderful surprise. I wrote earlier, on Kym’s post, what a supportive community we have. π Happy New Year to you and your loves! π₯
Thanks for your kind words, Michele, and it’s great to read you again too. I loved your book and look forward to your next one. Enjoy your weekend! π©·
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This is beautiful Lauren!
Thanks very much, Belladonna! Happy New Year to you! ππ₯³
Happy New Year dear Lauren!
What can I say? I agree with you.
Your poem is fun and true.
Wishing you all the best in 2024!
Resa
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Hi Resa! Happy New Year! I hope your holidays were fabulous, and I’m glad you agree with my thoughts and enjoyed the fun poem. It was a nice break, but it’s good to be back. Wishing you the same, my friend. Hugs and lots of love (from Copper too) πππΆπ§½
It was a good time. Glad you are back!
Thought I’d be catching up blogging during the holidays, but I’m more behind than ever!
Okay, write away! xxoo π§½π§½π§½π§½ xxoxoxoxoxoxo
That’s great, and thanks, Resa! I can’t keep up with reading blogs either, so I know how you feel! It remains a challenge. π Happy weekend! Hope it’s a good one! β€οΈπ€β€οΈπ€β€οΈ
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Wish you too a very happy new year ππ
Happy 2024 to you, Lauren, and welcome back! It’s great to see a new post from you, and I read a lot of introspection on how you want to live in this new year. May it be all you wish it to be. I look forward to reading all about it!
The poem is beautiful and very meaningful for me. Thank you.
Thanks for the welcome, Steve, and I hope you and your family had a wonderful holiday! It’s good to be back and to see you again. π My wishes are also the same for you, and I’m so glad my poem was meaningful for you. I couldn’t think of a new one, so an oldie had to do.
Happy New Year and I’ll visit you soon! π
Youβre welcome, Lauren! Thank you we did have a good one. Looking forward to more blogging in the new year, too.
Happy new year π now we have a new resolution for 2024.
Thank you! πΊ
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Happy New Year, Lauren. I never set goals. I just keep moving steadily towards finishing all the things I want to do or write or bake or paint. I have to set goals for work but I ignore them completely. It is not in my nature to have goals. I never compare myself to others either and I’m not really competitive. As I said, I just keep moving forward, over the humps and enjoying the straight pieces of the road.
Hi Robbie, Happy New Year, and thanks for sharing what works for you. I do set goals as opposed to resolutions but without pressure. I have projects in mind, and like you, I’ll work on those until they’re finished. For example, this year I plan to publish my first children’s book, Cora’s Quest, so I’m working on that as well as other smaller projects. I like the idea of ‘moving forward’ because that’s what I do also. I hope this new year is a wonderful one for you. xo
Thank you, Lauren. I look forward to your childrenβs book. When you are ready with it, Iβd love to host you on Growing Bookworms to discuss it π
That would be awesome, Robbie, thank you! ππ
Dear Lauren, so happy to read you!!
Love your thoughts at the beginning of this new year. May it be one filled with joy, peace, lots of books and lots of new writing ideas!
Can’t wait to see what you will share with us in 2024.
Till then, take care
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HI Marie, thanks for your lovely words and my wishes for you are the same in this new year. I hope your holidays were wonderful too. See you soon, and lots of love and hugs! xoxox
Happy New Year Lauren and welcome back. I’m so with you on goals instead of resolutions. We have to have goals. But I’m also with you on stop sweating the small stuff and letting sh$t go. And I loved your poem. β€ hugs.
Thanks, Debby, and I’m happy you’re on the same page with goals vs. resolutions, along with letting sh*t go! Santa brought me the book, Let that Sh*t Go, and honestly, everyone should read it. Plus, it acts as a journal with questions to answer and things to think about. Anyway, the whole concept stuck with me and that’s where the idea came from. π I’m glad you liked the fun poem too. Happy New Year, my friend. ππ₯
You know I’m going to look for that book! Lol. Thanks Lauren, and Happy 2024 to you and yours. β€
Haha, Here’s the info, Debby:
Let That Sh*T Go: A Journal For Leaving Your Bullsh*T Behind And Creating A Happy Life by Monica Sweeney!
Have fun and HNY again! Hugs xo
Thanks Lauren!! β€ xx
Happy Continuation, lovely friend. I bless all your endeavors. Xo
Thanks so much, Selma, and I do the same for you! ππ