Father’s Day Weekend Tribute ❤️

This post honors all loving fathers who do their best ‘to be the best’ for their children. To begin with, for my husband, our fathers who have passed and are missed more than I can express in words, and to my brothers-in-law…The poem below was written about my husband, Matt, from my poetry collection, Ever So Gently.

Beneath the Big Golden Sun

He was their hero when they were young,
teaching of nature beneath the big golden sun.
They tried on their packs before feet hit the trail.
He’d say, “Be prepared or else you could fail.”

The trio trekked down paths and up inclines too,
pausing along the way to admire a flower or two.
After arriving in camp, they helped pitch the tent,
stakes in the ground, windows unzipped to vent.

As an Arborist, he educated them about trees
under the blue sky beside the buzzing honeybees.
They explored the ground seeking burrowing bugs.
He expressed praise with words and loving hugs.

When the sun faded at the end of a day,
they roasted marshmallows, found dominoes to play.
His first goal was fun in nature, then came self-reliance.
Their minds were like sponges, soaking up the science.

Now they reminisce for the best teacher he was
and recall the bonding with the deepest of love.
Now he’s proud of them, adulting and doing it well,
honored with the memories, the special stories to tell.

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A younger FIL, who taught his son (Matt) about hiking and the great outdoors.
A fave of hubby and my dad after Mom passed.

By the way, DNA doesn’t make a good father. Actions Speak Louder than words, as we’ve heard before. A biologically connected man who neglects his children isn’t a good dad. A great father is a man who is emotionally available and actively involved in a child’s life.

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83 thoughts on “Father’s Day Weekend Tribute ❤️

  1. So lovely – your poem and the photos and post surrounding it. “Living in our hearts”. Four words that convey so much. And your reminder that DNA doesn’t make a good father – love and kindness do. Yes, yes. Thank you, Lauren! 💕

    1. Thanks so much on all counts, Vicki. I had to add the DNA thoughts because my sister and BIL adopted their two boys. DNA thoughts are the same for moms too. 🌷Thanks again, and Happy Father’s Day to Paul! Hugs 🥰

  2. That is one of my favourite poems from your book. My dad has been gone for 18 years and my father-in-law for one year. Miss them a lot. It is so wonderful to see my own son being an awesome dad!

    1. Thanks, Darlene! It’s one of my faves too. It’s hard without our parents, isn’t it? But it’s wonderful to see your son as an awesome dad. We don’t have grandkids just yet. 🙂 Happy Father’s Day to your hubby! ❤️

  3. Beautiful poem Lauren 🤝 What a beautiful tribute to a mentor who nurtured love for nature, self-reliance, and lifelong learning. The poem captures warmth, gratitude, and cherished memories—truly heartwarming. 🌿💛

    1. You’re welcome, Maggie, and thank you for your beautiful words! Also, I saw your comment on my prior post, but that post disappeared and I don’t know what I did. 🙂 Anyway, in answer about my book, it’s in the final formatting and editing stages, so I hope to publish it before the end of this month. Fingers crossed. Thanks for inquiring. 🙂 Much love and zillions of hugs to you, dear friend! 🥰💜💐

      1. Lauren truly my pleasure to read your words.
        Yayyy that is awesome
        You must be good at juggling then 🤗.
        I am sure Copper is excited too.
        All these issues are a pain, but we get there.
        I want to do two this year, but have not done much about it yet.
        I managed to read half of two books yesterday, so at least that was productive.😉
        Have a beautiful Sunday my friend.
        Love and hugs back to you ❤️💕🙏🌻🦋

  4. This actually made me cry. It’s so beautiful !! Aww 🥰 I have a husband named Matt so that had me hooked from the beginning . I love your collection of photos too, very touching

      1. Any time 🙂 and right ? I thought the hubby being named Matt was too funny and cool at the same time haha. it was a great piece. I’m happy to comment

  5. What a heartwarming tribute and trip down memory lane Lauren. I hope Matt enjoys his day and that the memory of your fathers warm that special place in your hearts. Love and hugs to you and your family my friend. Cheers! 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦💖🤗

  6. Dear Lauren
    Great tribute to the fathers 👍 👍
    But I have to admit I had a horrible connection to my father.
    I try to be a great father for Siri and Selma.
    Thanks and cheers
    Klausbernd 🙂

    1. Thanks for your kind words, Klausbernd, and it’s too bad your relationship with your father wasn’t good. But it sounds like you’re doing a wonderful job with Siri and Selma. I hope you had a wonderful day!

  7. The poem says so much about the kind of father (and man) Matt is. Loved the reminder that being a great dad isn’t about biology, but about showing up with heart. Such a warm and heartfelt tribute, Lauren ❤️❤️

  8. Wonderful poem Lauren ❤️ for a nice and special Day! A lovely tribute to your kids dad and all dads around the world who make a difference .

    We had lunch with my parents and my son. Father’s day is always a bit tough for my son but we do our best to make it a fun and hapy day!

  9. This is absolutely lovely, Lauren. You are so fortunate!

    You are right that biological does not necessarily a father make.

    My estranged 93 year old father went missing in the Vancouver hospital system on Father’s Day.

    We found him yesterday. His step-daughter has Power of Attorney. She had him moved, and has the family blocked from seeing him.

    Cruel as it all is, he is laying in the bed he made. Karma Hospital.

    xo🌹🌟❦xo

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